allies who are so shocked by the “rude” behavior of the online queer and trans* community and try to back it up with “but all my irl trans*/queer friends are so NICE TO ME!!1!!” well i hate to break it to ya, they ain’t being nice, they’re fucking scared of you and they know your “support” is so fucking flimsy you’ll turn your back on them in a hot second if they say anything.